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But let’s step back for a second. Stargirl is told from the point of view of Leo, another student at the high school, the kind of kid who does not like to be the center of attention and who actively seeks to blend in. As for Stargirl, on her first day of school, in front of the entire cafeteria, she walks up to a student and sings “Happy Birthday” while playing on her ukulele. For Leo, she is a great fascination–she is mysterious and flamboyant, the opposite of what he tries so hard to be. She wears clothes that seem to be from another century, sets up her desk like a table in every class, and eventually, she cheers at the football games, performing more dramatically than the cheerleaders, band, or even the football players themselves. She cheers for both teams, and she dances, and she calls attention to herself even more than the players. For this, Stargirl is noticed, and in certain ways, shown admiration. The home team was so terrible, there tended to be more people on the away team’s side than their own. After she began her elaborate performances, the stands were filled and the school and town were rallied.
Stargirl is so outside the norm of the rest of the students don’t really know what to think of her. In the midst of all the excitement and attention that she garners, Leo finds himself developing a crush on Stargirl and wondering if, perhaps, she might feel the same way about him.
Stargirl is the kind of book character we want to see more of--quirky, expressive, and willing to stand out. She has no desire to be popular and seems unaware of whether people like her--or not. She dresses as she likes and brings joy to everything she does. She enjoys acts of kindness, both those that are planned and unplanned, and those for which she receives credit and those for which she doesn't. She appreciates the world around her in a way that many people don't.
The back of the book praises Stargirl as a "celebration of nonconformity,” but the depiction is much more complicated than that. It is difficult to discuss this book without spoilers, but in Stargirl standing out in such a flamboyant way is not shown as being easy or without consequences. And more complicated is Stargirl's relationship with Leo, who as much as he admires Stargirl, struggles with how much attention she calls to herself.
It can be very difficult to express yourself when you are concerned about what others think of you. It is not uncommon for people to make an effort to dress similarly to others and not express unpopular likes and opinions. Of course, repressing yourself does not feel good and is not healthy. People should feel comfortable to be who they are and have the courage to say things that they think. They should choose their friends based on who shows them love and respect and a desire to see them at their best. Due to having little control over who they spend the majority of their day around and a still developing sense of self-esteem, adolescents do not always make the healthiest decisions about who to make friends with.
Without all of the tools to express themselves, clothing is a big way that students tell the world who they are. For this reason, it’s even more important that they have the opportunity and feel comfortable to dress as they please. Should they wear a band uniform to school when they want to or a chicken suit? Should they be shouting soliloquies at the top of their lungs in the cafeteria? Is it worth it to fit in if you feel like you’re being fake? Is it worth it to stand out if people don’t like you? If they exclude you?
The book also asks: Who are you if you spend all of your time watching the popular kids to know how to dress, what to like, and how to behave? Surely, there is something to be said for not forcing yourself to be a clone of everyone else, but there is also something to be said for understanding certain social behaviors and refraining from some behaviors.
It is worth the discussion with students to read this book. It is short and at a level that most middle schoolers would be able to digest. In addition to a discussion of celebrating the individual vs. community acceptance, there is a lot to discuss in terms of character development. Under the right circumstances, I would teach this book.
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